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Old 05-11-2012, 12:46 PM
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seller threatening me to leave feedback only 36 hours after receiving package

so i received my boots Wednesday night UPS (took one day short of two weeks to receive them) from an ebay seller with 31 positive sales feedback 83 total positives...

went on today to leave positive feedback for them (the boots are perfect, except that they came without the box that they were suppose to come in and took a while to get them, but no biggie)

and i had this message waiting for me in my mailbox

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Hello, Im checking to see if you received the boots? MY records show you received them. Please advise and send feed back so the funds can be released. If i dont hear from you within 24hrs or the funds are not released within 24hrs, i will make a report with Ebay and open up a dispute. Thankyou!!
so am i wrong for purposely not leaving feedback now i actually am tempted to neg them for threatening me and harassment (i wouldn't do it, but i AM tempted)

anyhow, just had to share the awesomeness of this seller
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Old 05-11-2012, 12:52 PM
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Thats pretty ignorant of them to add the little tidbit about reporting you to ebay and opening a dispute. How exactly is she going to open a dispute or file a report?

I would be tempted too
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Old 05-11-2012, 12:58 PM
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LOL I think they are just inexperienced and rude .

Being the bitch I am (not the sweets you are, Maureen ) I would probably just send them a message saying that I WAS going to leave the positive but changed my mind because of the threats and VERY tempted to leave a negative now.
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Old 05-11-2012, 01:05 PM
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^ hah not feeling so sweet right now! that is exactly what i just did

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Thats pretty ignorant of them to add the little tidbit about reporting you to ebay and opening a dispute. How exactly is she going to open a dispute or file a report?

I would be tempted too
i know, right!! i was really floored at their ignorance and stupidity and just plain being mean


i know people can get a little crazy when $$ is in the balance, but come on!!
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Old 05-11-2012, 01:38 PM
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ebay is a cunt about releasing funds to new or newish sellers (they hold my funds and Im not a new seller! but I havent sold in awhile.. meh) so unless I get feedback, I have to wait a ridiculous amount of time to get my funds released. Only 2 of my buyers have bothered to leave me feedback and while its annoying.. Ive waited the 2 damn weeks for my funds

Id send her a snarky message and leave slightly positive feedback.. just so she can get her money
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Old 05-11-2012, 02:10 PM
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Honestly.... I would neg them. This is so uncalled for and rudely toned that it boggles my mind.
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Old 05-11-2012, 02:32 PM
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^ i am so tempted i do feel they deserve it. it was rude and disrespectful, and frankly i am coming up with so many "good" reasons to neg them!

1)the boots were covered with masking tape on the inside... why i have no idea but i had to peel it all off (which honestly at the time didn't bother me)
2)the shipping was suppose to be USPS priority delivery within 5-6 days but came UPS after almost 2 weeks and i had to stay home and sign for it
3)i messaged the seller to please wrap the box in paper so it wouldn't get ruined in transit and they never responded and then didn't even send the original box (again, this didn't honestly bother me, until now!)

so zero communication, overpriced slow shipping, and masking tape

well, zero communication until i got this message
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Old 05-11-2012, 02:47 PM
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that's just odd, i would message her back just like the ladies said and maybe leave a neutral feedback?
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Old 05-11-2012, 04:27 PM
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I would DEF. neg her. I have had funds held before and would never have demanded feedback like that. Her funds will be released after 30 days no matter what, and it's not like it's your fault that her funds are being held in the first place, and I forget to leave feedback all the time, and sometimes I never do.
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Old 05-11-2012, 04:27 PM
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Wow. I would definitely neg them Maureen. Surprising how dumb/rude some people are.
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Old 05-11-2012, 05:17 PM
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I would neg, sounds like a mess all the way around. Box should have been included if it was in the listing, shipping should have been what they said it would be - or you should have been contacted informing you otherwise, tape on the boots is inappropriate and the message about reporting you to eBay is rude and uncalled for.

Both as a seller and a buyer I find people who are begging for feedback to be annoying. Are you selling/buying items for feedback or are you selling/buying items for money/the item????? Just purchased something last week where the condition was a bit less than what was stated, however was not going to mention it and just not leave feedback. Than I the seller contacts me, wants to know if everything is ok and why I have not left feedback. I tell him about the condition issues and he blows it off. So you only want to hear from me if I have no complaints and leave positive feedback?
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Old 05-11-2012, 05:34 PM
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yeah, bad, I am sorry about it Maureen. I'd left a neutral though
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Old 05-11-2012, 06:22 PM
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people can be so fu?k%*g weird

obviously i''m bored today

so i messaged them stating that i logged on to leave them feedback but after receiving the rude message i decided not to leave any and that i didn't appreciate being threatened and that i am not required to leave feedback and they had no grounds for a dispute.

they messaged back with
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there is no threat involved here. You you are required to leave feedback or let paypal know you received the item so the money is released
they did have a much better tone in this message but i was already loaded for bear and i went off

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if you stating "i will make a report with Ebay and open up a dispute" isn't a threat to me then i don't know what is? that was a very rude and disrespectful message for you to leave your buyer that spent $155 with you! i paid immediately, and i did not receive my boots for almost 2 weeks! you stated in the auction specifics that they would be shipped USPS priority flat rate and delivered within 5-6 days. instead it was extremely slow shipping AND i had to stay home and SIGN for a UPS delivery! not at all what i expected when i purchased from you. AND i even asked if you could wrap the original box so it would not be damaged in shipping to which you did not respond and i received no box at all! i have very good reasons to leave you a negative. terrible communication and overpriced slow shipping, no box plus the boots were covered in masking tape on the inside?? what was that all about? took me forever to get it off! tell you what, you refund me $20 for my time and trouble and we'll talk.
i know, my bad and i have no excuse other than i was so pissed that they were putting a bad memory on my beautiful boots

and i receive this back
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So Sorry for the misunderstanding. Im not sure about the tape on the boots there was no tape when i placed them in the box. You do seem a little up tight tho. Never met to offend you i was just a little concerned that i did not have the money. All is ok. Thankyou and God Bless
yeah, shocker, i'm uptight and it's all good now

anyhow, i'll let sleeping dogs lay at this point, i don't generally go off like that, and i generally don't give negs, and i wont on this either, but i am certainly not going to be leaving a positive! maybe a neutral (the boots are lovely )

thanks everyone for sharing in my vent

i feel better and hopefully they wont be bothering anyone else for feedback in such a rude manner
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lol! I've never seen a reply from you so worked up (the one you sent the seller) wtf she called you uptight? you're so not. I would've left a neg. but glad it's resolved. you are too nice Maureen
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Old 05-11-2012, 09:23 PM
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Her replies were even worse, Maureen. "You are required to leave feedback or let PayPal know" and "there was no tape when I placed them in the box" (...um, right) and finally "you seem a little uptight tho"...to me, now she deserves a neg more than ever. What a cunt. Excuse my language.
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Old 05-11-2012, 09:51 PM
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^ i you Nat

i know, i'm like really?!?! the tape magically appeared during transport and no kidding i'm uptight because of you biatch

you guys are awesome and i'm not uptight cause i have such wonderful AF friends

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what a crazy seller Maureen, I think you handled it really well.

Who ask for feedback?!
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what a crazy seller Maureen, I think you handled it really well.

Who ask for feedback?!
Well said, Kimoy. Exactly.
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Old 05-12-2012, 11:54 AM
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I had a similar situation a month or so ago Maureen. I messaged the seller because the item had clearly been used and the tag reattached even though the condition was listed as NWT. The seller flipped out on me calling me unprofessional and said that because I had waited 4 days since I received the item to message her, I was in violation of ebay policy and she was going to contact them.

I really don't understand some people
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Old 05-12-2012, 01:19 PM
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omg Angela, after only 4 days! that is terrible it would have been terrible even after 30 days, but 4 i have a hard time understanding what some people are thinking it just seems so much easier to play nice and have repeat customers, ykwim

i may neg them, just to warn others. it seems like the majority of you would have... i'll see how i feel in a few days... the seller certainly hasn't messaged me again offered to partial refund me if i weren't so busy today i would play with them a little more
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Old 05-12-2012, 01:58 PM
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these types often seem to say "God Bless" at the end of their poorly constructed email
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Old 05-12-2012, 02:28 PM
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i have sooooo noticed that
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Old 05-14-2012, 07:55 AM
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I am with the others. Leave her/him a neg.
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holy crap, i retract my previous comment if you dont feel right negging her (which she deserves) definitely leave a neutral!
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Old 05-14-2012, 12:08 PM
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okay you guys/gals would you mind helping me come up with an appropriate neg or neutral to leave looks like i get room for 80 characters
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