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Old 03-01-2011, 04:36 PM
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Who else would be totally ok with never having sex again?

I'm so tired.............. I have lost interest and it's the last thing on my list
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Old 03-01-2011, 04:41 PM
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Completely unrelated, but I definitely thought that said "internet" instead of "interest". I was confused.
That is all.
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Old 03-01-2011, 04:43 PM
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Ummm Wut? No way in hell.
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Old 03-01-2011, 04:51 PM
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IMO (only MY opinion) if the sex is good then you can never lose interest. I would NEVER give my sex life up...
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Old 03-01-2011, 04:56 PM
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Completely unrelated, but I definitely thought that said "internet" instead of "interest". I was confused.
That is all.
personally think I would rather lose "interest" than my "internet"
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Old 03-01-2011, 04:58 PM
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Old 03-01-2011, 05:00 PM
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^ that was pretty much my reaction as well.
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Old 03-01-2011, 05:11 PM
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The sex is good but I don't want it nearly as often as I used to. I think I needs labs drawn, seriously......

I work full time, plus some.. mostly late into the night so I can be home during the day with Mason (almost 3) and Sloane (8 months), still breast feeding and still have some pounds to shed from this last pregnancy even though I wasn't pregnant that long. I know not a legit excuse... all Mom's work hard too.

I need to step it up and spice things up
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Old 03-01-2011, 05:22 PM
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Old 03-01-2011, 05:33 PM
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personally think I would rather lose "interest" than my "internet"
rofl!

if i had to pick between sex and internet, i'd pick internet too
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Old 03-01-2011, 06:08 PM
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I remember feeling like that when I was with one of my ex's and also about 30 lbs heavier. I just felt disgusting, and even if I didn't feel disgusting fat, I hated him so much that I literally thought to myself it would be perfectly fine if I never had to have sex again. lolz. That has changed. There is hope!
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Old 03-01-2011, 06:08 PM
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The sex is good but I don't want it nearly as often as I used to. I think I needs labs drawn, seriously......

I work full time, plus some.. mostly late into the night so I can be home during the day with Mason (almost 3) and Sloane (8 months), still breast feeding and still have some pounds to shed from this last pregnancy even though I wasn't pregnant that long. I know not a legit excuse... all Mom's work hard too.

I need to step it up and spice things up
Honestly, I'm the same way. IDK what to do to even *want* it. It started with having bubs, b/c I tore, and the side that I tore on hurt for over a year when we had sex. Then I had an IUD that hurt and made me cramp when I did *anything* (walking/running/sex). And at this point, I'm just so tired all the time... I feel bad for DH, but I'd rather curl up with him and watch a movie need some she-viagra or something
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Old 03-01-2011, 06:16 PM
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I would not be okay with that. That is all.
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Old 03-01-2011, 06:28 PM
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Thanks Stacy you know what I mean

I wish I had the time to sit and watch a movie too. I think for me it's circumstance but I seriously need to do something about it. I feel bad for DH too. There's nothing like getting in the mood and then having to put your nursing bra back on because you're leaking milk kind of ruins things!!
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Yep, definitely remember that too. I learned to just keep it on, b/c I alway leaked milk.
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I'm so tired.............. I have lost interest and it's the last thing on my list
it's understandable, and i admire you for actually realizing it. you'd be surprised how many people feel just like you do. i see you are breastfeeding, and doing so does affect the hormone levels and can lower libido. in addition, you did have quite an experience with Sloane and her early arrival...it's no wonder you're exhausted.

the best advice i can give you is to not give up entirely; a relationship without intimacy is bound for disaster. the hardest part of being a parent is trying to reconnect with your spouse after dealing with kids all day (and night). it's damn hard, but it's entirely necessary.

this time WILL pass and you'll feel better about everything soon, i promise.

...and lol Mike and Pam.

edit: and a big fat +1 for the leaking milk-shower.
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because it's so sexy
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Wanda, I can relate 100%
I think breastfeeding and the extra pounds just ruins my libido. I feel bad for DH. But same thing happened after Mia was born and once I stopped breastfeeding and lost the weight I got pregnant again... I have faith this is temporary.

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mike in the pregnancy & parenting section -- lulz
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I'm going on almost a year without & I promise it's not ok. I think about sex all day long.
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I obviously don't have kids, so I can't relate to that, but I have had issues before because my body was out of whack. I knew that normally I loved sex, so something was wrong. If you have multiple issues going on along with the breast feeding and extra pregnancy pounds, it could be making it worse and it would be good to see your doc and try to figure it out.

I ended up stopping the pill because it was messing with my hormones. Once that was over my sex drive was back with a vengeance.

All I'm saying is, people go through things and you can't expect yourself to be on all the time. I'm sure your hubs gets that, but we women are super hard on ourselves about everything. Intimacy is important, and it's sometimes hard to get into it beforehand. As you said, the sex is good when you do it, and the more you do it, the more your drive will return to you.
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IMO (only MY opinion) if the sex is good then you can never lose interest. I would NEVER give my sex life up...
This is really judgmental IMO. Everyone is wired differently with respect to libido. And that doesn't even take into account other confounding factors such as kids, work schedules, hormones, stress, etc. It isn't very constructive to imply that the only reason someone would have a low sex drive is because they are bad at it. I know you said it's your opinion...I'm just offering an alternative perspective.
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This is really judgmental IMO. Everyone is wired differently with respect to libido. And that doesn't even take into account other confounding factors such as kids, work schedules, hormones, stress, etc. It isn't very constructive to imply that the only reason someone would have a low sex drive is because they are bad at it. I know you said it's your opinion...I'm just offering an alternative perspective.
yep, i was thinking the same thing, Stacia.
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Old 03-02-2011, 09:29 AM
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I feel like Wanda probably started this thread seeking support and commiseration. Not for people to insinuate that she is abnormal or to hear about how much great sex other people are having or want to have. My two cents.
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