that was way out of line for rosie to "out" clay when he hasn't even said he is gay yet. i have heard that expression being used for years and i always thought it referred to the fact that his hand might have been "down there" and i dont think it had anything to do with his sexuality. that being said, i have read that kelly has put her hand on regis' mouth before and i dont think she would have made the same fuss had it been someone different, like a really famous actor who she would not feel comfortable putting in his place.